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Greetings!
We know that this newsletter is long overdue. The months have kind of run into each other, and now we are already ¾ of the way through this year. We have enjoyed a cold winter and now the days are beginning to warm up and having a fire in the fireplace is not necessary. Our winters are not very long or severe. This is an ugly time of the year in Zambia. The grass is brown and the dust is thick. Over the next three months the dust gets so thick one can almost chew it.
Rod has had a rough few months with toothache, including two root canal treatments. In March he developed an allergy to something and for almost three months he suffered with hives and severe swelling of the face and lips. We believed that it was a food allergy because he reacted mostly after dinner. One evening his throat and tongue swelled. After an epinephrine injection, we drove 60 km (35 mi.) and spent the night at a clinic. We seldom ponder how isolated we are until we are faced with a potentially life threatening scenario. Our medical insurance company organized us to visit a specialist doctor in South Africa. To cut a long story short, after a great amount of blood work, scans and x-rays, they discovered that he had a massive infection in his upper jaw bone and sinuses and performed emergency surgery. We were gone for two weeks. Then a few weeks after he returned, the same thing happened and he had to fly back to South Africa this time alone. A cat scan revealed that his sinuses were three times the sizes they were supposed to be. We have things called turbinate glands that sit along one’s nose and above our teeth. This was the source of his trouble. We had to wait for all of the swelling to go down, when they shrunk them and straightened his septum. He was away for three weeks and now healing well.
In June the kids, Kathleen, and I (Sue) traveled to Lusaka for the kids to attend our annual home school student convention. The organizers must have picked the coldest week of the year to hold this event. Our kids were invited by two other home school families to stay together. Two brave moms took care of 11 kids. We are proud to tell you that Daniel won a second place for his wood working project, The home school volley ball team also won a first place. Daniel participated in that too. Joshua also won a second place for his research project on guitars, while Emily won a first place for a poem she wrote called “My Grandpa Kelly.” I also subjected myself to three hours of Pirates of the Caribbean, all the time thinking of the hundred things I would prefer to have been doing right then. The kids had fun and so did we. We took Kathleen to the airport at the end June. We were sad to say goodbye. The kids have enjoyed having Kathleen in the school room she was a blessing to all of us. Thank you Kathleen!
There had been a ban on the movement of cattle in our province since March because of contagious bovine pleural pneumonia (quite a mouthful). This has caused concern for many people who rely on the sale of cattle to keep their operations running. The government is doing testing for the disease, and if one’s cattle is found to be positive, then the entire herd will have to be slaughtered. Not a pleasant thought.
July brought the medical team en masse for the annual medical mission. It is always a time to renew friendships and meet new and interesting people. They treated 15,577 people in 10 days. Each time we watch them coming or going, one cannot help think of the exodus, like a sea of people. Have you ever thought what it must have looked like watching the people of Israel walking out of Egypt? I would be thinking, “Where is the back of the line?” That is what it is like when the team lines up for meals. We keep looking out thinking where the end of the line is.v Sue’s sister Liz and friend Bernice flew from South Africa especially to help Sue with catering for the medical group. They were invaluable, working long hours into early morning hours. Our neighbors Nancy Siazilo and Christiana Müller also spent many hours helping out doing whatever was asked of them. Without the help of these women, mealtimes would not have run as smoothly as they did.
We had a wonderful visit from four members of North Mission Church of Christ: Tim & Terri Ousley, Dr. “Snap, crackle and pop” Gary Whitaker (a chiropractor, if you haven’t guessed) and Mrs. Lema Conatser. We had a weekend pack with activities. On Saturday Terri and Lema, both school teachers, entertained and taught our 60 plus kids at a VBS. The Zambian kids love the puppets. Tim did a wonderful weekend series on the book of 1st Peter. On Sunday morning there were 270 bodies jammed into the small building where we meet. Tim had the pleasure of baptizing two people in our orchard water tank. We are certain that is was like no baptistery that he had been in before. The water was algae green and there was no telling what was swimming or crawling around at the bottom of the pool.
North Mission Church has become our new overseeing congregation. We had approached them six years ago, when making initial plans to come to Zambia, to take on our work. They were not able to do so at the time. Now over the years they have worked with us and become more involved in our ministry. They approached us with the desire to oversee our work. We will furnish the details as we have them. North Mission will work with Graham Street to try and make the transition go as smoothly as possible. Our heartfelt thanks to all at the Graham Street congregation in Stephenville, Texas for their help and support all these past years, members, office staff and missions committee. Without your dependable support, we could never have continued without worries. God bless you!
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Our house is always buzzing with the sounds of children. They are healthy and for the most part happy. Mill has happily gone home. His mother arrived one day and asked to take him home, and so off he went. Julius is gaining weight and is very sweet. Rose is a little butterball--she has become so round. One group of visitors brought a lot of knitted sweaters and hats with them. They dressed Rose in a lemon sweater and hat, which made her look like a lemon drop. Paul and Charlie are doing well. Charlie is crawling and Paul is pulling up on things. Faith’s progress is slow. She is a girl of a few words. Royce is a treat. She is a great mimic. Tim had her going, “Pop, pop…” She turns two next month and so she will either live with her uncle here on the mission or go to her grandmother. We prefer her to stay close by but it will be her family’s decision.
Adam, David and Shepherd are doing well. Adam is pulling up on things. His first two teeth are cross cut so he looks like Dracula. David is like an African chief with a large round belly. He is also crawling. Shepherd is all smiles and drool. He is trying hard to cut his first tooth. He sucks his first two fingers. He has a sweet nature.
Fred and Bradley have gone home to their families. We are amazed that when mothers, fathers or grandmothers come to collect their children, the babies seem to sense that this is family and bond almost immediately. Sandra is thriving and is always ready with a smile. Micah sadly is very ill. His mother died not long after he arrived here. Since he has failed to gain weight, we have tested him and found he is HIV+. Sue talked with his father and was informed that he was also HIV+ and so was his late wife. Today Sue talked to a doctor and on Friday will have an appointment where they will test him and start him on ARV syrups. What a blessing to have met this doctor from town today, when he came to the mission asking about buying cattle.
Gift is thriving. He is gaining weight, is alert, and has a sweet gummy smile. Bright is looking brighter. His eczema is under control and he is finally gaining weight. He is walking and saying words. He is looking better now than we have seen him looking in months. We had even started calling him “Blight” because of his condition.
Nancy, Mark and Elise are now two and are lots of fun. They love the playground outside. They treat us by saying new words. Mary is walking and is very pretty. She has a mouthful of pretty white teeth and is a real cutie. Twins Samuel (Sam) and Sarah arrived in June, very small. Sarah is thriving, but Sam is struggling. She is bald while he has hair. They remind us a lot of Mark and Elise when they first came.
Valentina arrived the day Bradley left. She is six months old. She cried a lot in the beginning but now has got used to her surroundings and is a happy little girl. Trust is our latest infant. He is three weeks old and still has the newborn wrinkled look. He seems to be healthy.
School vacation is about to begin. The Sibulwakabis will go to their family and probably take Demulu with them. They told us that it would not be fun without Demulu. Agnes has requested that Chibbo go home with her for the holiday. We will have to see what grandma has to say. For the first time Stephanie will visit her family for the holiday. She has never even been to her village, even though she has asked us repeatedly to go. We always thought her too young. Her sister visited a few weeks ago and asked us to bring her. We believe that it is a good thing for these children to keep ties with their families so that they know to whom they belong. We all need a sense of belonging.
Thank you to those of you who have helped sponsor our babies and our work. Hopefully this list includes your name:
Irene Schlarb, Sylvia Brown, Mike Adey, Mikaela Smith, Shelley Lax, Ruth Robinson, SSCOC softball team, Sylvie Brown, Anita Goodwin, Delores Martens, Coreena Wood, Red Deer Church of Christ, the Verbrugges, North West Church of Christ Illinois, North Mission Church of Christ. Davenport Church of Christ, Gravelbourg Church of Christ, Connie Meadmore .
Baby Sponsors are: the Edwards, Winnipeg group, Chimuka & friends, the Ballantynes, Marlene McClure, Jordan & Cherie, Pat Wheeler, Roberts family, Philipchalks, Tim & Shirley Coleman, Allen Neese’s Red Shirt crew, Sandra Neutel, and Parkland Crossing Church of Christ.
If you want to sponsor a child, then write and tell us. If you live in the USA, then your funds can be channeled through North Mission Church of Christ. Details are below. If you live in Canada, then all funds can go to Zambia Mission Fund-Canada, 4368 Lochside Drive,Victoria, B.C., V8X 2C9 Canada. Please note that our phone numbers have changed by one digit.
Continued Prayers
1. The sufferings of the people of Zambia, especially those losing loved ones to AIDS.
2. The growth and health of the babies.
3. Our physical and spiritual strength.
4. Micah’s body to grow strong.
5. Pray for good rainy season this year. A drought is predicted.
6. The cattle ban to lifted
7. Safety for our kids as they return to their villages for the holidays |
In His Service,
Love, Rod, Sue, Daniel, Joshua, Emily, Stephanie, Agnes, Cecelia,
Twaambo, Jack, Demulu, Chibbo, Faith, Nancy, Charlie, Elise, Mark, Paul, Bright, Royce, Mary, Shepherd, Adam, David, Julius, Rose, Sandra, Micah, Gift, Sam, Sarah and Trust.
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